Christians used the word "discipleship" to indicate the process of learning how, and being, a follower of Jesus. Much of the gospels are lessons Jesus gives on discipleship.
Many have a picture of what this means. But is it the same picture that Jesus has? There is a section in Luke, where Jesus gives four brief snapshots of different aspects of discipleship.
One time, Jesus' disciples were engaged in a discussion, trying to demonstrate who was the greatest. Jesus brings a child into their midst, and tells the disciples that receiving a child is the same as receiving him.
Discipleship does not focus on the high, and mighty. Discipleship focuses on the least. Discipleship serves the least.
Another time, the disciples tried to stop someone from healing, because they were not with Jesus. Jesus said if they were not against you, they were for you.
The nation of Israel had many tribes, and clans. But they were all God's people. The followers of Jesus are the same. There are many groups. Each group trying to obey, and proclaim, Jesus in their own way. Each groups has its reasons for following its way. And, yes, Jesus would look at some, and proclaim their ways are more profitable than others. And some ways may be just wrong. But he would say that all the groups are trying to glorify him. So, disciples of Jesus need to watch how they treat, and respond, to other disciples of Jesus. Jesus himself did not expect total uniformity. Otherwise, he would expect one group. Unity is not uniformity.
And, as Jesus was going to Jerusalem, through Samaria, a Samaritan village refused to be hospitable. The disciples wanted to drop a bolt of lightning on the village. Jesus rebuked this attitude, and went on.
Jesus' mission was to die for sinners. To bring them to a new life. Which included people from this village. Jesus' heart was for all people to experience God's mercy, and grace. His disciples need to have the same heart. In our day, there are many people who do hateful, and wicked, things. And it is easy to get angry, and wish for God's judgment to consume them. But that is not Jesus' heart. And it should not be the heart of his disciples. The prayers, and actions, of Jesus' disciples should be for all people to be captivated by the love of Jesus, and desire to live in agreement, and submission, to Jesus' will.
And last, there are a number of people who are concerned about the normal everyday. One person said he would go anywhere. Jesus said he had no home. Another said he had family obligations. And another said that family relationships were important.
It is not that Jesus is not concerned about physical needs, personal responsibilities, and personal relationships. But, often people can use legitimate concerns as excuses. Discipleship should be worked out in the midst of legitimate concerns. Disciples need to take of these legitimate concerns, but maintain an equal grasp on God's mission. It is like love. Love should be glad when people experience good. And if someone is involved in something bad, love is not glad, even if the person believes it is good. And patience, and kindness, need to be practiced. All of this at the same time.
Discipleship involves humility, unity, love, and the pursuit of God's mission. And everyday life, relationships, and personal responsibilities should not be neglected. Discipleship involves all of life.