The second passage is the Pharisee and the Tax Collector. In this passage, both men are in the temple praying. The Pharisee is thanking God that he has received God's acceptance, and blessing. He knows he has earned God's blessing, because of all the good, and religious, things he has done.
The Tax Collector is an employee of the Roman government. He collects taxes for the oppressors. So, he is viewed as an enemy, and a traitor, by Israel. So, he stands in the temple lamenting his sin,.
Jesus says it is the Tax Collector who is justified. The Pharisee is not justified, because he exalts himself. The Tax Collector is justified, because he is honest, sees his sin, and seeks forgiveness for it.
A citizen of God's kingdom recognizes that he has no good in himself. He approaches God in humility. He recognizes his need, and the need of all people. He recognizes that only Christ can meet his need, and the need of all people. So, he cannot say he is better than anyone.
He might be able to say he is better off. Not because he is better. But because there is a King, who is a Savior, who sought for the good of everybody, and some of us have actually received our benefits package from the King's government.
In other words, we are better, not because of our good, and religious, works. We are better because we recognized our need, and we recognized where we could go for help, and have that need met. And we sought out the King to receive his provision, and give him our allegiance.